Wednesday, February 18, 2009

love notes

My husband sends me love notes. Not daily. Not even weekly. But every now and then he texts, emails or leaves a note on the counter professing his undying love to me. Ok maybe not exactly like that but it's close.
I don't know how to describe my husband except that he has moments that he makes me so mad and moments that make me melt.

I love that he is the same way with me as he is when I'm not there. He doesn't put on the "I'm with my wife" mask. We really do have friends that do this - have 2 modes, friend mode and family mode - it's frustrating to me b/c I say things not realizing that the other's spouse may not know. I have a big mouth is what it comes down to.

Yesterday Ryan had to go check out a bridge and stopped to eat at the Quaker Steak and Lube on his way home - he brought me home some Arizona Ranch (my faves!) wings.

We didn't do anything outside of the house for Valentine's Day. I made some filet mignon. We played darts (he kicked my butt), then played the Construction game (I kicked his butt). Silly, maybe? but it was just nice spending time together not sitting in front of the TV! Then we watched the Christopher Titus comedy special on TV to which we both fell asleep during. Not sure if that means it wasn't funny or we were just that tired.

So today, I'm happy. I feel crappy I have a headache that refuses to go away, but I'm happy.
And I love getting love notes from my husband, they make my day.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

doggone him! he is going to raise the bar for the rest of us.

Lunamor said...

What a sweetie :) You are 2 lucky kids!

Fijufic said...

Best post I have read in your journal of all time....

Well...the rhino posts rank a close second!!!

Cheers,

Bobby

Wizardress said...

In that aspect, Ryan sounds alot like Marcel- he's always the same, regardless, and there are times I want to strangle him, and other times he makes my heart melt.

It makes up for those times we want to strangle them doesn't it? :)

*hugs*

pleiades said...

awww, what a guy. how long did the construction game take? i miss the farming game.